Dear Readers, 

I need help bad....I'm in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do. He is married but they are separated and he says he doesn't love her. Whenever he’s out of town, he calls me and gushes about how he loves me, but then he never acts on it. I love him like my best friend and lover, but I've been doing this for 3 years. 

Do I end it or give him a final ultimatum: step up or go away?

- Lost in Livingston